It’s your fault if people are walking all over you! WHAT? Wait, that can’t be right. I mean some people are just jerks and think nothing of over stepping boundaries. But that is exactly what I was told all those years ago when my ex and I entered marriage counseling. I was told that I had no clear boundaries and that if I didn’t like the way my husband treated me then it was up to me to set boundaries. Wow! At the time, those words made me really angry. I wanted her to tell him … [Read more...]

Deal Breakers

Deal Breakers

  First we would like to say thank you to all of our gentlemen readers that have been proactive in answering the questions from the ladies.  Hopefully, your sometimes brutally honest answers will help restore some harmony in the world, Lol!   I hope all of the gentlemen are ready to answer this new question we have received. So here you go…… What is your #1 deal breaker in women? In looking for potential relationships, we all have deal breakers.  What are yours? Too … [Read more...]

Do you believe in PMS?


    Men you may want to tread lightly with this one. I'm sure the reader asking it, thinks she wants an honest answer but remember we often speak in code. Here goes..... Do men think PMS is FACT or FABRICATION ? You can leave your response as a comment below or email Kathryn at: and she will publish your InSite. … [Read more...]

Forgettable In Every Way

Writers Block

  Here's another great contribution from Spike the Watercooler by author Tara Leigh Emnett. Have you ever been on a different page than the rest of the universe? I experienced a week of complete writer’s block. A complete and utter blank on anything compelling, witty, or even sarcastic. It’s officially a cold day in hell. I’ve tried to rack my brain for a really good reason, I was the kind of busy that makes me a little short of breath, I didn’t drink near enough liquids to … [Read more...]

I’m Fifty And I Like Rap Music

Rap Music

    Yes it’s true, I’m fifty years old and I like rap music!  But I also like top forty, rock, classical and country. I like it all.  Although at times my thirteen-year-old daughter is horrified that I am singing the words to a song whenever we are riding in the car with her friends. Which is kinda funny because when we are alone and singing together it doesn’t seem to bother her. MUCH. However this is not just about music, it’s about being open minded and aware of … [Read more...]

What if it takes us over 2 hours to get ready?

Woman with hair in rollers

Ok guys, here is your chance to have some input here on Woman's InSite. We have a question from one of our readers just for you. You can leave your response as a comment below or email Kathryn at: and she will publish your InSite. What are your thoughts when we tell you that it takes us 2 1/2 hours to get ready to go somewhere?  And....... how much do you notice things like our manicure, shaved legs, hair color.......? … [Read more...]

Listen Up!


When a woman speaks, it's up to you to decipher what she really means. We're trying to help you out a little. And if you're still not sure, ask her friend. … [Read more...]

Ladies, Play Nice!

Women's Hands

The last couple of years I have done a ton of networking and have had the opportunity to meet hundreds (or probably thousands) of people. I must say that I really enjoy this part of my job. I love talking to new people and getting to know them. Some of them I have ended up doing business with and some have become really good friends. It’s definitely a perk of the business! I have also had the good fortune of meeting many successful women who have inspired and encouraged me. It’s great to … [Read more...]

Do these jeans make me look fat?

operation beautiful post it note

In between exchanging recipes or chatting about the kids, women often engage in what’s termed “fat talk.” Experts once thought fat talk was reserved for middle school girls, but studies have found that it is a common occurrence in women of all ages, including older women, and even some men do it. Denise Martz of Appalachian State University who co-authored a study on the subject says, “Because women feel pressured to follow the fat talk norm, they are more likely to engage in fat talk … [Read more...]


Kathryn and Ronny

What are regrets exactly? I think I’ve come to a place in life where I don’t believe in them….don’t buy into or sign up for them. After all, I love my life today. And the road I’ve traveled to get here has made me who I am. So yes, mistakes have been aplenty but each one has gotten me here, to this place that I am today that is perfect for me. I completely believe in the plan that God has for me and I know that He loves me unconditionally. I am where I am because of decisions that I … [Read more...]