Is it Really a Lie?


I've been having an ongoing conversation with my boyfriend for years. It concerns what makes a lie, a lie! I say anything that isn't true is a lie. If you only admit a partial truth in order to conceal something, that's a lie too. Especially if it's to hide your own transgressions, no matter how trivial. I say that some lies are most definitely meant to protect the listener but they are still a lie. He says if a lie is told to protect from hurting someones feelings then it's not really a … [Read more...]

Are You Whipped?


  Gentlemen are you whipped? It’s funny how men tease each other. They are so competitive at everything, especially when it comes to women. And sometimes when one man gets the girl, suddenly leaving his single friend with a lot of free weekends, a little bit of jealousy comes into play.   Now all of a sudden you are whipped! Oh there is so much teasing involved that it can sometimes really hurt the ever so fragile ego. You would be surprised to know that it probably has … [Read more...]


advice for men

    Sounds like love to me! … [Read more...]

Shopping for Her

Man shopping

  Ok guys, you have been shying away from some of our recent questions so here is a VERY simple one: Do you like your wife/ girlfriend to tell you what gift to get for her or would you rather find something on your own that will surprise her?     … [Read more...]

How do you meet women?


  Ok guys, this question actually comes from me, Kathryn. I had a recent conversation with a gentleman that was asking when our next party would be. He had a friend that was newly divorced and was hoping that there might be some lovely single ladies at our next party. It seems like I know so many men and women that are looking for either that special someone or just simple companionship. This brings up the question, in what ways do you pursue meeting women? Is it through on-line … [Read more...]

If you ever need someone to cry with you, I’m your girl!

women crying together

It seems like tears and laughter lie simultaneously just underneath the surface of me. In fact, all of my emotions are easily tapped into in the blink of an eye. I have always been this way. Since I can remember, tears seem to readily spring to my eyes and humble me at the mere hint of an emotional moment. Whether it’s tears of joy or sadness, they are always willing to show what’s going on in my heart whether I want it known to the public or not. I have also had times that laughter came … [Read more...]

How do you act?

guys hanging out

Ok guys, this question is for the single and attached gentlemen: Do you think that you act different when you are just hanging out with the guys than you do when a woman that you find attractive walks into the mix? We already know that you hold back on the farting, burping and scratching. What we want to know is if you see yourself or your buddies act in a noticeably different way. Also, do you see women do the same thing? What if you saw your wife get all giggly when an attractive male … [Read more...]

How soon do you allow a girlfriend access to your personal information?

Woman looking at boyfriends phone

  For those of you men who are in the dating world, here is a question especially for you: We all know that when entering into a relationship you don't immediately give a new girlfriend the password to your phone, email or any other private information. The question is, at what point in the relationship, if ever,  is it okay to start letting her have access and/ or control to all of your connections? AND If you have allowed access, would it be okay with you if she deleted … [Read more...]

My Throw Down with “Dance Mom”

Katie First Dance Recital

      At the end of this month I will be attending my millionth dance recital! Ok, maybe that is a slight exaggeration but let's say I've attended a bunch. My daughter danced for 14 years and now my god-daughter is in her 11th year of dance. She will most likely continue on for another 4 years so I still have a few years ahead of me before this comes to an end.   I love watching all the dancers and seeing how they have grown in talent and size from … [Read more...]

Woman to Woman

Woman We Can Do It!

One of the most important relationships in our lifetime are the ones we share with other women. As women, we have to wear so many hats and carry so much of the world on our shoulders.  We often hear how difficult it is to get along with other women. We're often called catty and competitive. While that may be the case in some circles, I wouldn't be where I am today or possibly here at all if it wasn't for my amazing circle of women friends that coddled me when I needed to be protected, kicked … [Read more...]